flesh over form
chiseled abs are showroom material. sculpted to be admired from a respectful distance. a museum exhibit which looks great under a soft light. but in reality? they're not much fun to play with. too rigid. nothing to sink into.
what really does it is the heft. a body that gives a little when your fingers press down. warmth that feels alive. not some airbrushed fantasy. a slab of living beef. you can hold that. grab it. leave marks. perfection isn't the goal here, but something that moves when you move it.